Just because you love me doesn’t mean I feel loved by you.

Ive noticed that most people give their love in the same way that they want to receive it.  Pay attention to the things you do to share your love with someone & you’ll see what I mean.

Dr. Gary Chapman created the concept of the 5 love languages to understand how to speak to your lover in their language & improve how they interpret your love. 

You don’t get to choose how your lover feels loved, you just have to care enough to feed their need.

The languages are:

Words of affirmation

A person who prefers this language likes to be told how much they are loved and why. Doting over this person and telling them you appreciate them will communicate love to them.

Acts of service

This language is spoken with actions.  Doing for them & making gestures to make life easier on them says everything they need to know about your love.

Receiving gifts

Sometimes it takes an actual gift or surprise to prove your love.  When they know your thinking of them while your buying a gift it makes them feel present to you.

Quality time

Choosing to spend your free time with someone can be enough for some lovers. Your presence is their present. So be pleasant!

Physical touch

From public displays of affection to that weird stuff under the sheets, knowing what kind of touch makes your lover tingle  will make them confident of your love for them.

I suggest everyone and their family take the attached quiz.  Understanding eachother on a level like this can literally alter the path of a persons life.

Love me right, I’ll love you right and maybe the world will be a happier place.